Attending Traditional South Korean Weddings as a Guest

1. Invitation: Ensure that you have received a formal invitation to attend the South Korean wedding ceremony. The invitation usually includes the date, time, and venue details.

2. Dress Code: Dress appropriately in formal attire. Men usually wear suits or traditional Korean attire called Hanbok, while women may opt for Hanbok or elegant dresses.

3. Arrival: Arrive at the wedding venue on time to pay respect to the couple. Avoid arriving too early or too late.

4. Greeting the Couple: When you meet the couple, bow slightly and congratulate them by saying, "Chook-ha-ham-ni-da," which means "Congratulations" in Korean. You may also give them a small gift or envelope with money, usually in a form of "blessing money" known as "chalui." The amount typically depends on your relationship with the couple.

5. Seating: Follow the seating arrangements indicated by the venue staff or ushers. Usually, close relatives and friends are seated at the front, while other guests are seated in the middle or back rows.

6. Ceremony: During the ceremony, maintain appropriate behavior and avoid disruptive activities. Remain standing or seated as instructed by the officiant or ceremony leaders.

7. Traditions: South Korean weddings often include various traditional ceremonies, such as Pyebaek (ritual with the parents) or Pae Baek (bowing to the parents). You can observe and follow along with these traditions. Avoid taking photographs or using flash without permission.

8. Reception: After the ceremony, join the guests for the reception. Enjoy the food and participate in the festivities. There may be performances, speeches, and toasting during the reception.

9. Manners: There are a few etiquette guidelines to follow. Avoid sticking chopsticks upright in the rice, as it resembles the ritual of offering food to the deceased. Refrain from blowing your nose or displaying public affection. Respect the customs and traditions of the wedding.

10. Departure: When leaving the wedding, you can bid farewell to the couple by bowing again and expressing well wishes for their future. Thank the hosts for inviting you to their special day.